White Embroidered Brocade Lehenga

I ordered 2 outfits from here both custom measurements. The way to take the measurements isn’t super clear to me. The tailor came back with suggestions, making my arm hole smaller than requested , as well as making the hips and waist larger than I requested. The only suggestion they made that was accurate was the shoulder width of the blouse and even this is still too big. ( I had put 20 inches for reference because I didn’t realize it was supposed to be the width from shoulder strap to shoulder strap.) they recommended 14.5 inches and it is actually just slightly too big. 14 probably would have been better . The arm hole is too small, the size I requested would have been perfect. The waistband is large on the skirt and the bottom of the blouse is also too large as I requested 34 inches for those and they suggest 35. Not everyone has the same body type so it would be nice if there was a more accurate sheet on how to measure your body for the different outfits. I am grateful for the suggestions but it still needs alterations.